Regardless of what we do in the church, if we do not do it for the right reason, then we are wasting time. We are not just wasting our time, but we are also wasting the time of other members of the congregation. We can try to say that we have no responsibility for emotions of others, but that is wrong. As the apostle Paul taught us: we all need to be aware that our area of service is somewhat optional, as pertains to location of delivery. Consider this Scripture.
I know, and am persuaded by the Lord Jesus, that there is nothing unclean of itself: but to him that esteemeth any thing to be unclean, to him it is unclean. But if thy brother be grieved with thy meat, now walkest thou not charitably. Destroy not him with thy meat, for whom Christ died.
Let not then your good be evil spoken of: For the kingdom of God is not meat and drink; but righteousness, and peace, and joy in the Holy Ghost. For he that in these things serveth Christ is acceptable to God, and approved of men.
Let us therefore follow after the things which make for peace, and things wherewith one may edify another. For meat destroy not the work of God. All things indeed are pure; but it is evil for that man who eateth with offence. It is good neither to eat flesh, nor to drink wine, nor any thing whereby thy brother stumbleth, or is offended, or is made weak.
Hast thou faith? have it to thyself before God. Happy is he that condemneth not himself in that thing which he alloweth. And he that doubteth is damned if he eat, because he eateth not of faith: for whatsoever is not of faith is sin.
(Romans 14:14-22)
Does this mean that I will not operate in the church unless there is a group consensus about what I am doing? Of course, that is not the answer. We do not have to give undue weight to group consensus. However, we do have to present clear biblical doctrine that supports our position of service. Among the times when this was clearly demonstrated was when Peter and the other apostles were told that they could not preach in Jesus’ name. This is that episode of history.
Gender Bias – 14-Specialization
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