In most of our familial situations, the child of man is the student of woman. That is a truth which will endure, across all time. The associated principle is also broadly true: the daughter of woman is the responsibility of man. This can be an uncomfortable realization for a woman that is pushing to be an alpha type of societal agent. We say that, the lack of comfort is not necessary. Please note: we do not say that an alpha type expression by woman should never be done. Here, these women did that . . .
Then all the men which knew that their wives had burned incense unto other gods, and all the women that stood by, a great multitude, even all the people that dwelt in the land of Egypt, in Pathros, answered Jeremiah, saying,
As for the word that thou hast spoken unto us in the name of the LORD, we will not hearken unto thee. But we will certainly do whatsoever thing goeth forth out of our own mouth, to burn incense unto the queen of heaven, and to pour out drink offerings unto her, as we have done, we, and our fathers, our kings, and our princes, in the cities of Judah, and in the streets of Jerusalem: for then had we plenty of victuals, and were well, and saw no evil. But since we left off to burn incense to the queen of heaven, and to pour out drink offerings unto her, we have wanted all things, and have been consumed by the sword and by the famine.
And when we burned incense to the queen of heaven, and poured out drink offerings unto her, did we make her cakes to worship her, and pour out drink offerings unto her, without our men?
(Jeremiah 44:15-19)
You ask: isn’t there a more positive example that you can use? Yes, I could; but, I would have to rely on external history. For instance; in history, we see Joan of arc. It is true that, someone decided that she was worthy of almost-apostolic recognition. However, that decision of external historians is not so impressive, for me. More impressive are the references to women of the Bible.
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